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What can a parent do to help a child with Dyslexia?
• Help your child understand the nature of his/her difficulty:
• Read books or view videos about dyslexia
• Emphasize the child’s abilities instead of “disabilities” Help other members of the family:
• Help others recognize and understand your child’s learning disability. Family members often ask “who, what, where, and when” questions to get the necessary information.
• Help your child locate and develop other talents: Sports, art, music, mechanics, hobbies, etc.
• Help improve your child’s self-image by giving your child tasks he/she can master:
• Give the child chores to do (e.g., setting the table for supper, clearing the dishes, and making the beds). •
• Make short lists of tasks to help the child remember. A list is impersonal and reduces irritations. The child will gain satisfaction as he checks off tasks completed. •
• Often children do not process multiple requests quickly or accurately. State your ideas in simple, clear, one-concept commands and ask the child to repeat what was said. Speaking at a slower rate of speed to the child is often helpful. Structure the child’s life at home:
• Stick to a regular routine for meals, play, TV, chores, homework, etc.
• Keep belongings in the same place. Help the child remember where to put them.
• Keep instructions simple – one at a time.
• Break tasks into small parts or steps.
• Relieve stress in weak areas.
• Guard against negative remarks, especially those referring to laziness or lack of effort.
• Avoid threats of punishment for such things as low grades, their need for repetition of directions, ineptness at simple tasks, etc.
• Set standards, goals, and expectations of achievement within reach of your child’s abilities. How Can Parents Build Self-Esteem?
• Praise your child often and sincerely
• Don’t constantly nag or criticize
• Catch your child doing well
• Give your child opportunities to succeed
• Tell your child you believe in him or her
• Give your child lots of hugs and kisses
• Praise efforts that are working towards a goal
• Don’t compare your child with anyone else
• Look for ways to make your child feel capable
• Encourage your child to make age appropriate decisions
• Give your child a chance to solve problems before jumping in
• Listen to your child’s thoughts, feelings, and ideas without judging or criticizing